I don’t like it when people try to figure me out. I like it even less when they think they already have.

there’s a misguided belief that just because you’re a sad-looking punk who plays an acoustic guitar, it means you are sad or it makes you more honest than musicians who attempt to create an experience of truth in some other way. it just isn’t true.

some songs console you when you’re sad. some calm you down. some are meant to stir you up. some are transcendental and some are just really dumb.

the religious hymn, the novelty songs, or the ones filled with an inventory of lovers, they all have a place.

the dark, brave, thoughtful and serenely startling ones, tracks we dance to, anthems we revolt to, beats we bounce to and sounds people make love to, they all have a place.

we may crawl out of a song feeling more in love, or younger, or angrier, or wiser, clutching a secret message of small meaning, or nothing.

we might seem lost. we might seem happy. there are a hundred different states of human yearning, and people need to feel them all.

musically, I don’t really fit in anywhere (this much is true). but everyday people tell themselves a story about you. they have a set of expectations of what you will be like when you walk into a room, or on stage, or anyplace else.

what matters, I think, is that when someone with a pure heart has a story to tell, we listen.

20 responses to “it just isn’t true”

  1. Oh my gosh I know the feeling. It’s annoying when people think they can read you like a book after knowing you for a few minutes. Worse is when they think they have you all figured out. People are pretty multifaceted. They can surprise us.
    I love that you aren’t letting yourself be pigeon-holed. Be you – and that can be different depending on the day or situation.

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    1. I think when someone makes their own special magic, it becomes hard for people to just put them in a box x

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      1. Yes thats so true! 😁
        You are one of those people! ❤️

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  2. And often listening is more than enough… 🙏💫

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    1. the connection formed from listening is everything x

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  3. Beautifully expressed. ”a hundred different states of human yearning” sounds like a poem title I have written. My words are often drenched with that diamond-faceted yearning, and I relate to not fitting in artistically and in general, but perhaps that is a core part of artistry, unleashing the rainbow that is you, even in a colorblind universe. Cheers for the storytellers! 

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    1. It saddens me when kids even grownups abandon what they’re about simply to be a part of the crowd

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  4. Beautiful, cookie. To be truly heard and understood by another is life-affirming.

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    1. and when we let people see us for who we truly are I think we find we’re more than we ever thought we were 🤍

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  5. I enjoyed reading this, Cookie. such truth to your words….if only we all could adopt this mindset….life would be so much more simple 🤍

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  6. You have a beautiful way with words cookie and I love this. To truly be seen and heard is the most beautiful gift of all!

    My husband always touched my furrow behind my brows and says “now say this without being angry:” and I shout. I’m not angry, it’s called natural aging and I’m not getting botox (not today anyway.. lol) and then I get angry.. 😹💓

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    1. you’re so kind, thank you, Cindy. I’m enjoying getting to know you.

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      1. It’s my pleasure truly… well thank you and I you, Cookie! 💕

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  7. When you write these analyses of what writing songs involves they do strike home. So thanks for putting into words the reality of why you put yourself through the process. Music transcends. I found that out when playing guitar and singing songs recognised from their past to patients with dementia. They simply connected. Profoundly. You write really insightfully cookie and put it all down in a very enlightening way. Cheers and good fortune.

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    1. musicians have a special way of understanding one another, and I feel that way when you stop by to share. thank you, Gray.

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      1. I do love your insights cookie. They resonate to my own experiences. So a huge ‘thank you’. All the best.

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  8. As a lifetime musician/artist/poet, I feel your words. I wish you joy in your journey, but I also wish you sadness, pain, loneliness, heartache, satisfaction, love; for with these your songs will resonate with those who listen. Being a creative isn’t easy, but love your gifting.

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    1. that’s gracious and wise, Kaci, thank you ☺️

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